Broken hearts are like stepping stones, it could either trip you and fall or bring you forward and be someone better; the choice is actually yours. Though heartbreaks are painful, you should always bear in mind that pain does not only exist on goodbyes, there are a lot of pains the world has to offer; don’t let broken heart be your downfall.
Here are a few words to live by and motivate you to move on, just bear in mind that you should sink it in; because there is no sense on trying when you yourself won’t let it happen.
“There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go” – Jessica Hatchigan
In order to get away with regrets, it is crucial to know the difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up is setting your limits, that you fell short for yourself that and felt you wouldn’t be able to do it. Letting go however is when you’ve done everything and gave your best but nothing is going right. Giving up is surrendering, while letting go is deciding to throw away the toxins that burdens you. When you are about to make a decision, always know the difference between the two; regrets are to taunting that it could haunt you forever.
“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” – HermanneHesse
To be strong is to be able to stand up for yourself, not letting the circumstances or anybody dictate your happiness and self-appreciation. People thought that enduring the pain makes them strong, but actually, it just shows how weak you are; that despite the situation bringing you down you are too weak to defend yourself. Let go and be better, because if someone gave up on you, it just meant that for that person you are not that precious; find someone who is also afraid of losing you.
“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” – Deborah Reber
There is no certainty in this world, what may mean the world to you now could not be that someone you’ll grow old with. Despite the troubled seas you conquered, you could someday be hit by the wind and have to go separate ways. You need to realize that you’re not in control of your partner’s life nor has he got the right to control yours; but you are the master of your life, choose to be strong and move forward.
“Sometimes the door closes on a relationship, not because we failed but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed a tear, turn around and look for the new door that’s opened. It’s a sign that you’re no longer that person you were, it’s time to change into who you are. It’s going to be okay.” – Lee Goff
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“If love becomes too painful, then it’s time to let that love go and save yourself. You have to keep this in mind because you’ll be able to find another love but not another self.” – Robert Tew
A broken heart doesn’t make you miserable, it won’t tear you down unless you allow it to. People come and go, you can’t stop them from leaving; the only thing you could do is to accept that truth. When they decide to leave make sure to get a hold of your self, don’t let them take everything with them… leave something for yourself and for that someone who deserves another chance of love from you.
“Time doesn’t heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go.” – Roy Bennett
How long could you bear the burden of “what ifs”? how long could you allow yourself to get drowned with tears, how long would it take you to finally let go? The time you are waiting for won’t come unless you are decided to move forward. Years won’t even be enough, because when the heart holds on, moving on is impossible.
“There comes a day when you realize turning the page is the best feeling in the world, because you realize there is so much more to the book than the page you were stuck on.” – Zayn Malik
Because Life is a book of journeys, when you decide to move forward, you’ll be amazed of the greater things that await you. Don’t get too stuck on the less desirable pages, flip it on and see what’s in-stored for you; you’ll never know unless you finally leave those pages behind.
Move Forward and Be Happy
We’ve been there, we fell deeply in love with someone, sometimes we loved too much to the extent of making them our world, but not everything may be in our favor. There are things that are out of our control, matters that we need to fight for or things that we need to let go; because love is like a key, no matter how hard you try to open the lock, as long as they’re not the right match, it would never work. No matter how bad you want the person, even you give your all, if your hearts are destined does not belong to each other; you just got to let it go – move on and find your happiness.