Words for the Broken Hearted

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Broken hearts are like stepping stones, it could either trip you and fall or bring you forward and be someone better; the choice is actually yours. Though heartbreaks are painful, you should always bear in mind that pain does not only exist on goodbyes, there are a lot of pains the world has to offer; don’t let broken heart be your downfall.

Here are a few words to live by and motivate you to move on, just bear in mind that you should sink it in; because there is no sense on trying when you yourself won’t let it happen.

 

“There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go” – Jessica Hatchigan

In order to get away with regrets, it is crucial to know the difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up is setting your limits, that you fell short for yourself that and felt you wouldn’t be able to do it. Letting go however is when you’ve done everything and gave your best but nothing is going right. Giving up is surrendering, while letting go is deciding to throw away the toxins that burdens you. When you are about to make a decision, always know the difference between the two; regrets are to taunting that it could haunt you forever.

 

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” – HermanneHesse

To be strong is to be able to stand up for yourself, not letting the circumstances or anybody dictate your happiness and self-appreciation. People thought that enduring the pain makes them strong, but actually, it just shows how weak you are; that despite the situation bringing you down you are too weak to defend yourself. Let go and be better, because if someone gave up on you, it just meant that for that person you are not that precious; find someone who is also afraid of losing you.

 

“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” – Deborah Reber

There is no certainty in this world, what may mean the world to you now could not be that someone you’ll grow old with. Despite the troubled seas you conquered, you could someday be hit by the wind and have to go separate ways. You need to realize that you’re not in control of your partner’s life nor has he got the right to control yours; but you are the master of your life, choose to be strong and move forward.

 

“Sometimes the door closes on a relationship, not because we failed but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed a tear, turn around and look for the new door that’s opened. It’s a sign that you’re no longer that person you were, it’s time to change into who you are. It’s going to be okay.” – Lee Goff

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“If love becomes too painful, then it’s time to let that love go and save yourself. You have to keep this in mind because you’ll be able to find another love but not another self.” – Robert Tew

A broken heart doesn’t make you miserable, it won’t tear you down unless you allow it to. People come and go, you can’t stop them from leaving; the only thing you could do is to accept that truth. When they decide to leave make sure to get a hold of your self, don’t let them take everything with them… leave something for yourself and for that someone who deserves another chance of love from you.

 

“Time doesn’t heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go.” – Roy Bennett

How long could you bear the burden of “what ifs”? how long could you allow yourself to get drowned with tears, how long would it take you to finally let go? The time you are waiting for won’t come unless you are decided to move forward. Years won’t even be enough, because when the heart holds on, moving on is impossible.

“There comes a day when you realize turning the page is the best feeling in the world, because you realize there is so much more to the book than the page you were stuck on.” – Zayn Malik

Because Life is a book of journeys, when you decide to move forward, you’ll be amazed of the greater things that await you. Don’t get too stuck on the less desirable pages, flip it on and see what’s in-stored for you; you’ll never know unless you finally leave those pages behind.

 

Move Forward and Be Happy

We’ve been there, we fell deeply in love with someone, sometimes we loved too much to the extent of making them our world, but not everything may be in our favor. There are things that are out of our control, matters that we need to fight for or things that we need to let go; because love is like a key, no matter how hard you try to open the lock, as long as they’re not the right match, it would never work. No matter how bad you want the person, even you give your all, if your hearts are destined does not belong to each other; you just got to let it go – move on and find your happiness.…

The New Dating Rules

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Are you in hunt for an old school kind of love? Well, it’s kind of hard to find one on this present generation. Though the classics seemed to be so romantic, so flattering, and so hard to get over; there are new dating trends that both sexes are starting to get occasioned of. It may be new to some, but these new rules seems to come easy breezy to follow for some.

 

Here are few of those newly innovated dating rules:

 

The Right Combination

The right time has come that your girlfriend’s besties aren’t your strongest competition; the present dating rule includes your friends and your partner. Throw away the old mantra that takes away the real fun, no more ticking the calendar for different schedules; taking a campout with your girlfriend and your friends (with their partners) is the modern way to do it. Though you should spend quality time with your partner, it won’t be that hassle to set different dates or to find an excuse because your girlfriend doesn’t want you spending time with your pals; getting her close to the pack would let her understand what kind of friendship you have and what you’re in to. The more the merrier – that’s just how the modern people do it, keeping all the good people together.

 

Not Yet The Due

Well, you are too old if you still set a specific time when to say yes or when to finally take your first move on that girl you’ve been eyeing for quite some time. The world is fast paced and the dating world seems to adapt easily, you don’t need to wait for that specific time when you know deep within you feel you’re like a rocket waiting to explode and say YES! Waiting in vain is too classical that most of those who wait vainly end up with nothing; just treasured moments of watching time pass by and seeing people come and go. If it’s time to say yes, they say yes. When you feel the urge to do the first move, do it.

 

Women Can What The Men Could

No more time to go daisy-like, women nowadays would gladly do things for men. It doesn’t bother them paying the bill on dates or giving a part of it, not even worried when she is asked to take herself on the meeting place when the man can’t fetch her. She knows her place and doesn’t really get intimidated when her partner couldn’t cancel a scheduled trip with his friends – just don’t get into her gut-feels, because women are fighters now, they can do what men could do when they get mad.

 

The Longer The Better

It doesn’t really apply well on the present generation. YOLO as they say – You Only Live Once, thus, life is too short to waste on getting to know each other. The best way to live life now a days is to know the person a little bit, and when sparks ignite it is the right time, no more holding back. Courting doesn’t need to be long, what needs to last longer is the relationship.

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